Questions to Ask Before an Abortion

All major life events come with questions. Whether buying a house, starting a new job, or having a medical procedure done, there are questions to be asked, there is research to be done. The same is true if you are considering an abortion.

Questions to Ask Yourself

The first questions to ask are personal–questions only you can answer. Asking these questions can help you as you get deeper into looking at all your options, particularly abortion. They’re important because you probably haven’t had a reason until now to consider some of them. Your answers will help you to see more clearly your values and goals as they relate to being pregnant and what your future may hold.

Consider: Is this your decision, or are you being pressured by others? Have you thoroughly looked at all the options open to you, their benefits and their risks? How will you feel about the decision you make in the future?

Questions to Ask Before an Abortion

There are a lot of questions you should ask before an abortion, so you are prepared if you choose to go ahead with the procedure.

Consider asking: What options do I have? What is the name of the doctor who will perform the abortion? Does he/she have admitting rights to the local hospital in case of complications? Will I be tested for STDs before the procedure? How much does it cost?

Other procedure-related questions include: How long will I be at the clinic? Can I bring a friend with me? Will there be a nurse with me before, during, and after the abortion? Will my privacy be protected? Will my abortion be performed by someone in training? Will I have to deal with protesters outside the clinic? Is follow-up counseling provided?

If any of the answers you receive make you uncomfortable, take some time to think things through before committing to an abortion appointment.

Come in for Pregnancy Screening and Answers to Your Questions

At Willowbrook Women’s Center, we know an unexpected pregnancy is hard. You might be in full-blown panic mode or just feeling completely overwhelmed. You could probably use a steady, calm environment with people who have only your best interest in mind.

Make an appointment to come in and talk with one of our advocates. We will offer you a lab-grade pregnancy test to confirm your pregnancy, an ultrasound if the test is positive to confirm the viability of the pregnancy, and STD testing to make sure you don’t risk pelvic inflammatory disease should you have an abortion.

Our advocates will help you sort through all the information you receive and make sure you have honest, unbiased information on all the options open to you. We offer this free of charge in a compassionate, non-judgmental environment so you are able to move forward with confidence that you are making the best possible decision for yourself.


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Unplanned Pregnancy, What Are My Options?

An unplanned pregnancy can be one of the toughest things to deal with. Shaky hands and an unsteady feeling certainly don’t help as the emotions, the fear, and the tears come on hard and fast.

At Willowbrook Women’s Center, we are here for you. We know what you are going through, and we are committed to helping you through it. We have no doubt that you can and will make it through, but sometimes it’s nice to know you’re not alone, and there is someone you can talk to who will support you and not condemn you.

As you consider which path you will choose, there are some options for you to consider—abortion, parenting, and adoption.


Abortion stops the pregnancy from moving ahead. This is done in a variety of different ways depending on how far along you are in your pregnancy. It is time-dependent, so if you are considering this as an option, you should know there is a point at which this is no longer an option.

The timeframe allowing for abortion changes from state to state. For instance, Wisconsin allows abortions to take place up until 20 weeks gestational age. Other states, such as New York, Massachusetts, Florida, and Nevada allow abortions up to 24 weeks.  In Missouri, abortions are allowed through 21 weeks, 6 days.

The different options for abortion range from the abortion pill, which is actually two pills taken a couple days apart, to surgical procedures that increase in scope and risk the farther along you are in your pregnancy.

You will surely have a lot of questions, and we are here to answer every one of them.


About half of women facing an unplanned pregnancy choose the parenting option. That doesn’t mean it’s an easy decision to make, and it comes with its own set of questions:  Am I ready to be a parent? How will I support myself and a baby? What if my relationship isn’t stable?

Experts suggest writing down your feelings—all of them—and then write down how your values and beliefs affect the way you look at each of your options. What are your goals, plans, and dreams, and where does pregnancy fit within them?


Concerning adoption, it used to be said that you were giving up your baby, as if you were failing. Today it is said that choosing adoption means you have done careful planning and put a lot of emotional effort forth together with some sacrifices. It’s done with love, bravery, and selflessness.

When looking into adoption options, there are some places that will let you create your personal adoption plan, including choosing the perfect adoptive family, deciding how you want your hospital experience to go, and determining the type of relationship you want to have with the child after adoption.

Come in For Support

Each of these options requires strength, and we know you have this strength within you. No matter which path you choose, you are strong enough to see it through. However, you may not be so sure you have the strength. We will help you find and see that strength, so you will have the confidence to choose the road that you believe is the best one for you.

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